Hebrew University Researchers Believe They Have an Answer to the Question
Seeking love? Then you’ll understand how important that first date might be. What draws us to certain individuals when we fall in love but not others? Most of us will be surprised by the response, but not the team of researchers led by Dr. Shir Atzil of the Department of Psychology at Hebrew University in Jerusalem.
“Connecting with a partner depends on how well we can synchronize our bodies. We specialize in studying parent-infant bonding – and we had already seen the same thing there,” she explained.
The study focused on how the physiology and behavior of a heterosexual couple adjust to one another during that first meeting. The research was based on a speed-dating experiment with 46 dates. Each date lasted for five minutes, during which time each partner’s physiological regulation levels were monitored using a wristband.
Synchrony Predicts Romantic and Sexual Attraction
Throughout the date, each partner’s behavioral actions—such as nodding, moving an arm, or shifting a leg—were also observed. The pair evaluated their feelings of sexual and romantic desire for one another after their experience. The research clearly demonstrated that couples are romantically attracted to one another when they synchronize their physiology with one another and adjust their behavioral motions to their partner throughout the date. The study was published in the journal Scientific Reports.
Intriguingly, the study also showed that the degree of synchrony affected men and women differently. Although for both genders synchrony predicted attraction, women were more sexually attracted to men who showed a high level of synchrony – “super-synchronizers”; these men were highly desirable to female partners.
“Our research, ” said Atzil, “demonstrates that behavioral and physiological synchrony can be a useful mechanism to attract a romantic partner. However, we still don’t know whether synchrony raises attraction or does the feeling of attraction generate the motivation to synchronize?” Atzil is planning to investigate that area of research.
Reference: “Bio-behavioral synchrony is a potential mechanism for mate selection in humans” by Lior Zeevi, Nathalie klein Selle, Eva Ludmilla Kellmann, Gal Boiman, Yuval Hart and Shir Atzil, 21 March 2022, Scientific Reports.
DOI: 10.1038/s41598-022-08582-6
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5 Comments
Curious as to the purpose of this study? I hope to gawd they’re not trying to make a self-help guide, “Do This for Everlasting Love According to Science” book >_<
synchrony is just a symptom / signal of attraction not a modality to produce it.
I found the article informative. Date behavior is an interesting topic that helps understand attachment and the beginnings relationships.
In new age terms, it is called RESONANCE. The real issue is, at what psychological level does the resonance exist?
Proves the age old belief we make love to ourselves, mirroring so as to reflect a person perception into thinking another person is but another copy of myself. You must love yourself before you can love another. The quicker the mirroring the deeper the fall, but unless its genuine it will turn into disaster and pain.